Spending a penny? Trojan toils and tribulations



On average we all use a toilet at least 6 times a day. People with dementia may find themselves needing to use a toilet more frequently because of difficulties remembering when they last went and urgency. Going out can involve a protracted weighing up of the benefits versus potential hazards of being caught short in the absence of accessible toilets. Whilst this may be one of the unmentionables of life, difficulties with toilets can isolate people from undertaking many social activities. From buying those essentials, such as new shoes, to attending a family event, all may be abandoned because of families unable to find a dementia friendly toilet.

Rural areas are generally not considered as places which require public toilets. Here in the Peak Park there are more public toilets to accommodate the needs of visitors than in most rural areas. However, even these are susceptible to closure, either permanently or over winter. Some have been closed because of the urgent need for upgrading works. Public toilets are a necessity for us all; we now have baby changing tables, accessible toilets (operating under the Radar key scheme) and some adapted toilets such as wider doors. What we don’t have are dementia friendly designed toilets. Towns, such as Plymouth, working hard towards becoming dementia friendly, have adapted all their public toilets. By contrast, cities such as York, working hard to become recognised as human rights friendly, seem to have lost the basic rights of access to a public toilet. Awards to Yorks newly designed galleries include some of the most visually confusing and disorientating toilets I have ever encountered. It’s time to consider the politics and aesthetics of public toilets in public places and spaces.

Of course spending a penny for most of us is a fairly easy endeavour; even when the paper roll is jammed. For the person affected by dementia the design of public toilets can become a task of overwhelming difficulty, resulting in incontinence and profound distress. The presence of mirrors, lack of clear lettering/symbols, colour contrast signage and easy seating can all lead to immense challenges. One distressing incidence can effectively halt any future outings leading to a narrowing of families worlds. Social and family events will be missed for fear of a repeat of such distress. The consequences can exacerbate a sense of isolation and loneliness among families. Isolation can contribute towards a sense lowered well-being and feeling less valued among family members.

We have to question why planning approvals for new builds and upgrades fail to consider the needs of communities where people with dementia live. Why in an age when accessible ramps, lever type handles and raised height seats are the needs of people with visual and cognitive challenges consistently disregarded? Does design aesthetics really win in public places or risk exclusion of families affected by dementia? Surely with determination the designers, architects, local politicians and users can all work together to demand functional toilets for all?

As individuals we can all support people affected by dementia. I have been told of an act of kindness which a lady recently mentioned to me. Molly and her husband, who had dementia, decided to go shopping one busy morning. On the journey, her husband indicated that he needed the toilet. Realising the urgency of the matter, they dived into a pub and her husband was guided to the mens. Molly waited a while in the pub and eventually a young man came over to her and asked to have a quiet word. In privacy, the man explained that her husband had been doubly incontinent and was distressed…the man went to explain the issue to the management and then agreed to stand guard outside the toilet whilst the couple sorted the issue. The couple were treated with kindness and dignity in an understated way. All this in a fairly busy rural pub. This event happened more than 5 years ago but is still remembered fondly by Molly.




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